10 differences between a man having sex with a woman and a man making love with a woman. 1. Sex: Fulfill the need to ejaculate. Love: Fulfill the need to give, to relate, to love and to create new realities together, to be closer to God. 2. Sex: Self absorbed and needy. Love: Strong, generous and shining. 3. Sex: Needy, unsure and focused on self, angry if woman doesn't please. Love: Focused on the beloved, wanting the woman to be pleased, confident in the ability to connect with her body and soul. 4. Sex: Wanting it to be over soon, and then to be left alone. Love: Feeling like making love goes on all the time in spirit and soul, with the physical act being the crowning glory. Feeling even more connected after making love. 5. Sex: Empty feeling afterward, looking for the next fix and the next high, whether more sex, food, money, or adventure. Love: Fulfilled and experiencing joyful oneness with the beloved afterward, feeling high and complete for up to 2 weeks afterward. 6. Sex: A dirty feeling about it, feeling naughty and proud of conquest. Love: A spiritual feeling, open hearted emotion and respect for the act itself, and humbled by the beauty of it. 7: Sex: Little or no emotional connection to the woman. Love: Strong connection on every level with the woman. 8: Sex: Empty and tired afterward, depending on the degree of satisfaction, either bored, angry or kindly disposed toward the woman. Love: Rejuvenated and relaxed, healed and uplifted, feeling oneness with the woman. 9: Sex: Sees sex as unimportant except for body relief, on a par with food, entertainment or shelter. Love: Sees physical union as heartfelt spiritual and soulful path to enlightenment, that engages all levels of being and awareness of both partners. 10: Sex: Easy to give up or take for granted, unfulfilling, expensive in time-effort- and other ways, frustrating and in many cases not worth the trouble. Love: Experiences enlightenment and rapture more and more, especially as defenses melt and true love has its way. C. Paul Michael Schlosser Ph.D. Feel free to share.
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25 degrees Libra The Angels of Sexual Transmutation Also known as The Angels of Haiamon Beloved, At this time when sexual energy is at the forefront of attention, and so many are praying for Heaven on Earth, it is important that ancient skills for directing sexual energy become understood. Spiritual enlightenment reveals that sexual energy properly directed manifests youthening and supreme happiness. We inspire the mastery of sexual energy, so that the body and consciousness are spiritualized, enlivened and uplifted. Sexual energy catalyzes emotions into powerful magnetic impulses that attract realities into physical manifestation out of the infinite potential of the quantum field.One of the most important reasons that painful emotions should be healed between partners before sexual orgasm, is so that the explosion of sexual energy attracts positive results for the entire web of life.Enlightened sexuality is revealed in original purity of all ideas in divine mind to mystically transform reality. Divine positive emotions experienced in sexual meditations attract heaven into physical manifestation within the body and also in the outer world. It is important that sexual energy within each and every Child of Light be brought into the highest and most perfect expressions. There are many techniques to heighten, direct, and spiritualize sexual energies that are our delight to open up to those who call for our help. We have helped the Children of Light transmute sexual energy INTO HIGHER STATES OF CONSCIOUSNESS since the beginning of time. We inspire through intuition and we also guide people to books and teachers who explain how to master sexual energy through focus and intent, breathing and dialogue, meditation, emotional release and spiritual attunements. When sexual energies are directed through intent, visualization, breath, emotions and attention etc. upward along the spine, different ganglia and glands are stimulated in its path. As these glands are stimulated, they produce natural ecstatic consciousness-altering and healing substances that are a thousand times more powerful and safe than psychoactive substances obtained from other sources. Travelers on the spiritual path to spiritual perfection have made use of this knowledge since ancient times to attain enlightenment, youthening and bliss. Whether you are alone or in a sexual relationship, we inspire you to direct sexual energies for physical vitality, emotional healing and ecstasy, creative inspiration, intellectual enhancement and strong spiritual connection to Divine Consciousness. In sexual contact, we inspire using hands to touch different chakras of the partner to open them and make complete circuits of energy. Breathing exercises combined with visualizations of pure colors and flowing emotions of divine virtues are useful as well. One of the ways to transmute sexual energy is by coming close to orgasm several times in a row, but not climaxing. Do this as many times as there are ganglia, or chakras, that you wish to stimulate along the spine. Each time you "come close" to orgasm without going past the "point of no return" by briefly pulling back and letting the energy subside and then continuuing, sexual energy is pushed up the spine and rises to the next higher chakra and ganglia of glands. For example, sexual energy in the solar plexus energy will move next to the heart chakra. Allowing the energy to orgasm at the heart chakra opens up mystical revelations of the heart. We help with the combination of holding energetic focus, clear intent, appropriate visualization, and attunement to divine emotions so that sexual energy is uplifted, transmuted and progressively refined. This kundalini energy will heal and stimulate each chakra of the body, one at a time as it moves up the spine. In other words, if you desire to stimulate the fourth ganglion, the heart chakra, corresponding to the thymus gland, orgasm is withheld four times, until the fourth peak of sexual energy. At this level (the heart chakra) the concentration is on flowing with loving emotions with visual imagery that enhances loving feelings. Loving feelings are the appropriate concentration at the level of heart. Likewise, any negative emotions should have first been cleared which would have interfered with the flow of loving "heart" feelings. For this reason, at each level, or chackra, mutual understanding and healing should occur with important agreements shared between partners before engaging sexual practice. If there are blocks in any chackra, or major lack of agreement, the sexual energy will not be able to flow upwards past this point. It is wise for men to learn to orgasm without ejaculation, unless they desire impregnation to birth a child, as this recycles important nutrients into a type of cerebro-spinal fluid. This is the ability to let the sexual energy build almost to the point of orgasm, then backing off. This ancient technique of ejaculatory self control is a special type of mastery that can be perfected through practice. The key is for the man to learn to stop pleasureful movements just prior to the "point of no return" and pause long enough for the near climactic peak to subside, before resuming love making. With practice, at the appropriate time, an orgasm or climax will occur without ejaculation. This specialized restraint and mastery of emotions are important in harnessing powerful sexual urges for the purpose of spiritual sexual transmutation. Remember that thoughts are rational, but emotions are not. Emotions work according to different principles than thought. Emotions are compressed information, like zip files, and are experienced to reveal the wisdom of the heart, a wisdom that has more dimensions and is different than the concepts of the mind. In mastering emotions with a partner, remember that emotions are not rational and should not be subjected to the rules of thought and logic, instead they should be felt, experienced through unconditional love. Trying to rationalize emotions inhibits their flowing, and moves the energy from the heart to the head. Intellectualizing emotions cuts them off and the wisdom that can be gained from even the most painful ones goes unnoticed. Giving thanks for difficult or confusing emotions instead of fearing them or acting them out destructively heals them. Healing painful emotions restores the ability to magnetize high states into physical expression. We inspire the remembrance that sexual energy energizes emotions, which is why it is so important to experience positive emotions in a sexual relationship. Remember that thoughts work through theta brainwave states in the imagination, and beta brainwave states in linear logic. Emotions work through the dreamy Alpha Brainwave State of flowing and change. Each state has its own laws of process. Denying, suppressing, or bypassing negative emotions buries them in the subconscious where they continue to unconsciously attract negative results. Like impure water, negative emotions are designed to heal through flowing safely in an atmosphere of empathy and love. In flowing with emotions, the ancients used back and forth eye movements like the body generates nightly during REM sleep. Healing emotions using eye movement mimics REM sleep that occurs naturally in the dreaming process and spontaneously produces insights as feelings flow. These insights heal negative beliefs that have been associated with negative emotions. Allowing oneself thus to "flow" with negative emotions in an atmosphere of unconditional love ultimately transforms negative into positive feelings, images, and thoughts. When negative emotions arise in self or others, thank these powerful emotions and also appreciate and validate the wounded inner self that generated them. Thank these emotions and the inner wounded self that is causing them for the lessons learned and wisdom gained, and thank them for trusting you enough to reveal themselves Then, with empathy and a mantra of gratitude and love, let these emotions flow until they naturally heal. Using techniques that quickly heal wounded emotions to make them go away may bring about good results in the short term, but there is a danger of not integrating deep lessons and wisdom that these negative emotions and traumas offer. These lessons and wisdom are often why the higher self allowed the emotional wounding to occur in the first place. The more negative emotions are healed before engaging in sexual expression, the more spiritually and emotionally successful sexual expression will be. When emotions are positive, flowing with them enhances and strengthens them. It is important to take as much time as necessary to share feelings, to help each other heal emotional wounds, and to explore and cherish the wondrous ecstasy of falling in love. H-A-I-A-M-O-N H. This letter represents the Power of the Word. This virtue of The Power of The Word is the out picturing of divine virtues into being, will, visualization, intellect, feeling, and sensation, then into form. The sound of each letter represents a divine virtue. The ancient language is the use of each letter so that the entire brain is utilized. In learning how to transmute sexual energy, this virtue is of paramount importance, because the mind and feelings must be focused on specific divine qualities, s tates or creations that one wishes to stimulate in self and other. Different chackras, or glands, respond to different divine virtues. By using The Power of the Word, the specific desired neurotransmitters and other powerful psychoactive chemicals are produced in the body. In using the Power of the Word, a child of Light and flowing love learns to understand how Divine Providence created everything. * A... The sound of this letter, a soft A like a sigh, is the sound of the highest wisdom and illumination that can be lavished upon a human being. The purpose of sexual transformation is to achieve complete mastery of consciousness, enlightenment, and divine rapture. When the body is flooded with these states of awareness, mystical healing on every level is experienced. The color is light blue, the musical note is G, the sensation is ease since it is the element of air, and the lungs are formed by it. Mastering this virtue in meditation gives clairvoyance, clairaudience, eloquence, artistic and musical gifts, and the control over the element ofair. We awaken mental acuity in the seeker, ingenuity, the ability to grasp high abstract and enlightened new information very quickly and easily, and flawless mental functioning. Then all imperfections are released [umlaut A, ae] to Divine Being for transformation into another state that is the highest good of all concerned. * I The sound of the letter I is the Divine Virtue of Cause and Effect, which represents the law of evolution of everything. This law gives the understanding and mastery of the akasha, or subtle pre-matter principle. The sensation of akasha is 'God-penetrating-all.' The understanding of cause and effect also enables the perfection of memory and conscience. Because all life is connected as a unified field of energy, whatever is willed, thought, felt, or done have repercussions throughout the entire web of life, both inside the microcosm which is the human body or the macrocosm, which is the outer universe. This also has profound repercussions on any child that is brought into manifestation. "As above, so below." Whenever a person focuses on and creates a divine virtue, the entire body and the kingdom of heaven, and indeed all of life, responds accordingly. What is sown is reaped. The letter I with its light opalescent color, representing the law of cause and effect, is the spiritual essence of the left kidney. This virtue is of the earth element, so it has the sensation of weight. The musical note is G. When this second A is pronounced umlaut A, ae, Long A. The realization of wishes regarding physical matter is subjected to this virtue. The sound of this letter, the long A, ae, in the cosmic language is the virtue of the origin and mystery of life and death regarding their transformation. By meditating on this virtue, a child of God becomes convinced that in reality death does not exist, for the so-called death is only a transformation from one state into another. Also will come enlightenment on the cause of this transformation. With this comes the ability to master all negative spiritual beings in all spheres and planes with regard to their scope of action. The purpose for which negative beings have been created becomes clear. Since, in the original principle all beings are alike, each having been created by Divine Providence to fulfill a certain task, there is no dissimulation of negative beings, for from the enlightened person's point of view everything is pure. Here the saying: "to the pure one everything is pure" becomes plain. If there were no negative beings, it would be impossible to distinguish between good and evil; and if there were no passions, there would also be no virtues. This virtue confirms the words contained in the Bible: "through night to light", the deep symbolic meaning of which now becomes clear. In the intellect the ability is gained to 'see through all thoughts, actions and wishes concerning matter, and of becoming their absolute master'. In the feelings, this virtue represents desires, passions, and the inclination to self-satisfaction etc. A person who masters this virtue in their feelings becomes absolute master and ruler of all desires and passions. Also, a person is able to not cling to imperfect mental, emotional, and material values and objects. This means complete independence and freedom and fulfills the saying "bind yourself and you will be free". On the material level this virtue is one of the most materialized. No matter whether you evoke it in the mind, the feelings, the akasha, or the material world , the earth is influenced by it to a larger extent. The ability to infuse matter with divine virtues is heightened. The color of this virtue is loamy brown. The musical note is C. The element is earth so it has the sensation of weight. The anus is formed from this virtue. M The letter M represents the divine virtue of FEELING. This virtue is the magnetic Feminine force of the Universe that attracts energy into form on the material plane. Everything in nature was formed through the magnetic power of divine emotions. To master sexual energy one must have the ability to emotionalize strongly the previously visualized desired divine states and qualities. The color of this virtue is the most beautiful blue-green imaginable. The musical note is D. The element is water so it has the sensation of coolness.The abdomen is formed from this virtue. * Umlaut O, eu By seeing through the eyes of the most profound cosmic divine love, indwelling perfection is revealed and enlivened in whatever is seen. O The sound of letter O is the sound of the initiation into the original principle of divine justice. Mentally you will be able to give expression to the absolute legality of harmony in all four basic qualities of the elements. Intent controls thought and thought controls emotion. Emotion controls earth. You will have a high power of judgement and the ability to comprehend spiritually any legality, any interference by Divine Providence for the sake of justice. You will never be able to condemn anyone unjustly. This brings about the abilities to create any change in the emotional situations that you find yourself in and to have absolute success and happiness on all levels. This virtue has an ultramarine blue color, the musical note of C, and is the earth element so it has the sensation of weight. It forms the throat and windpipe. * N This sound is the sound of supreme happiness and fulfillment. The transmutation of sexual energy into powerful ecstatic states of consciousness and being is a key to attaining this state. This virtue gives control over the mental matrix, which is the spiritual bonding material that connects the emotional body to the mental body, i.e.,to the spirit. The mastery of this virtue reveals to the child of God all the mysteries relating to the mental matrix and bestows the ability to comprehend, see, sense and control, the mental matrix with its sphere of action, either in regard of self or others. The color is dark red, the musical note is A, it is of the water element of feeling so it has a cool sensation. The liver is formed from this virtue.
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